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#21 Posted : Saturday, June 2, 2012 7:29:47 AM(UTC)
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Zell wrote:
One word: anonymity.

Kids feel like they are somewhat untouchable on the internet, so they do many things they wouldn't be able to IRL due to the absence of RL boundaries.
You can't really blame them, they are just discovering themselves. It's like discovering your third member, at first you find your new discovery exciting, but as the years go on, you'll acknowledge that everyone of you kind has got one.
Many never get out of the childish, self-centered state, which is where a vast majority of these people still seem to roam in.

Basic method of dealing with immature behaviour: stop giving the infant the attention it desires. It works every time.

It's like a mother letting a baby continue to cry untill the child realises that mommy doesn't come by crying anymore.


epic psychology aka the Dark Unhuman Zell


If you are a parent perhaps you have heard of Ferber, Ferberizing, or the "cry it out" method for sleep training. Or maybe you have tried the "cry it out" method on your highly sensitive toddler in order to teach her to self-soothe. For those of you unfamiliar with the Ferber method it is where parents are encouraged to not respond or have a controlled response to a crying child. There is a great deal of controversy surrounding whether allowing your child or young infant cry it out is dangerous. Dr. Sears, a proponent of attachment parenting says the following on his website about the dangers of the Ferber method.

"Science tells us that when babies cry alone and unattended, they experience panic and anxiety. Their bodies and brains are flooded with adrenaline and cortisol stress hormones. Science has also found that when developing brain tissue is exposed to these hormones for prolonged periods these nerves won’t form connections to other nerves and will degenerate".


According to Dr. Gordon (2006), "Crying is an important elicitor of parental behavior which both initiates and propels the development of relationship with self and others". When parents respond sensitively to babies or young children's cries they help the child learn to adjust to distress and cope with states of hyper-arousal. Children who learn, early in life, to adjust to distress effectively are better able to regulate their emotions which contributes to a greater sense of well-being. Infants are not born with the ability to discriminate the meaning of facial expressions or emotions



transposed to this situation -comunity of gamers with different ages and equal rights do to game rules- means to try to be more kind to the others helping them with good advices in a good way instead hating them , ignoring them calling them imature,infants,cryes(witch doesnt make you more mature) and they will understand in the end how the things going.
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#22 Posted : Saturday, June 2, 2012 3:06:51 PM(UTC)
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coloured wrote:
Zell wrote:
One word: anonymity.

Kids feel like they are somewhat untouchable on the internet, so they do many things they wouldn't be able to IRL due to the absence of RL boundaries.
You can't really blame them, they are just discovering themselves. It's like discovering your third member, at first you find your new discovery exciting, but as the years go on, you'll acknowledge that everyone of you kind has got one.
Many never get out of the childish, self-centered state, which is where a vast majority of these people still seem to roam in.

Basic method of dealing with immature behaviour: stop giving the infant the attention it desires. It works every time.

It's like a mother letting a baby continue to cry untill the child realises that mommy doesn't come by crying anymore.


epic psychology aka the Dark Unhuman Zell


If you are a parent perhaps you have heard of Ferber, Ferberizing, or the "cry it out" method for sleep training. Or maybe you have tried the "cry it out" method on your highly sensitive toddler in order to teach her to self-soothe. For those of you unfamiliar with the Ferber method it is where parents are encouraged to not respond or have a controlled response to a crying child. There is a great deal of controversy surrounding whether allowing your child or young infant cry it out is dangerous. Dr. Sears, a proponent of attachment parenting says the following on his website about the dangers of the Ferber method.

"Science tells us that when babies cry alone and unattended, they experience panic and anxiety. Their bodies and brains are flooded with adrenaline and cortisol stress hormones. Science has also found that when developing brain tissue is exposed to these hormones for prolonged periods these nerves won’t form connections to other nerves and will degenerate".


According to Dr. Gordon (2006), "Crying is an important elicitor of parental behavior which both initiates and propels the development of relationship with self and others". When parents respond sensitively to babies or young children's cries they help the child learn to adjust to distress and cope with states of hyper-arousal. Children who learn, early in life, to adjust to distress effectively are better able to regulate their emotions which contributes to a greater sense of well-being. Infants are not born with the ability to discriminate the meaning of facial expressions or emotions



transposed to this situation -comunity of gamers with different ages and equal rights do to game rules- means to try to be more kind to the others helping them with good advices in a good way instead hating them , ignoring them calling them imature,infants,cryes(witch doesnt make you more mature) and they will understand in the end how the things going.


not bad :)
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#23 Posted : Thursday, June 7, 2012 4:04:57 AM(UTC)
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coloured wrote:
Zell wrote:
One word: anonymity.

Kids feel like they are somewhat untouchable on the internet, so they do many things they wouldn't be able to IRL due to the absence of RL boundaries.
You can't really blame them, they are just discovering themselves. It's like discovering your third member, at first you find your new discovery exciting, but as the years go on, you'll acknowledge that everyone of you kind has got one.
Many never get out of the childish, self-centered state, which is where a vast majority of these people still seem to roam in.

Basic method of dealing with immature behaviour: stop giving the infant the attention it desires. It works every time.

It's like a mother letting a baby continue to cry untill the child realises that mommy doesn't come by crying anymore.


epic psychology aka the Dark Unhuman Zell


If you are a parent perhaps you have heard of Ferber, Ferberizing, or the "cry it out" method for sleep training. Or maybe you have tried the "cry it out" method on your highly sensitive toddler in order to teach her to self-soothe. For those of you unfamiliar with the Ferber method it is where parents are encouraged to not respond or have a controlled response to a crying child. There is a great deal of controversy surrounding whether allowing your child or young infant cry it out is dangerous. Dr. Sears, a proponent of attachment parenting says the following on his website about the dangers of the Ferber method.

"Science tells us that when babies cry alone and unattended, they experience panic and anxiety. Their bodies and brains are flooded with adrenaline and cortisol stress hormones. Science has also found that when developing brain tissue is exposed to these hormones for prolonged periods these nerves won’t form connections to other nerves and will degenerate".


According to Dr. Gordon (2006), "Crying is an important elicitor of parental behavior which both initiates and propels the development of relationship with self and others". When parents respond sensitively to babies or young children's cries they help the child learn to adjust to distress and cope with states of hyper-arousal. Children who learn, early in life, to adjust to distress effectively are better able to regulate their emotions which contributes to a greater sense of well-being. Infants are not born with the ability to discriminate the meaning of facial expressions or emotions



transposed to this situation -comunity of gamers with different ages and equal rights do to game rules- means to try to be more kind to the others helping them with good advices in a good way instead hating them , ignoring them calling them imature,infants,cryes(witch doesnt make you more mature) and they will understand in the end how the things going.


mmmm you said hyper-arousal.
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#24 Posted : Saturday, June 16, 2012 12:16:09 PM(UTC)
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Oh damn. That's a sexy man.
Mortamor is gay
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#25 Posted : Saturday, June 16, 2012 4:55:17 PM(UTC)
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Greetings,

Still alive and kicking I see.

Miss this game ^^

nice physique Muay, just a mile more and you'll be as handsome as I :D

Wish yah all good times!
Best regards to everyone,

LaVi
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#26 Posted : Sunday, June 17, 2012 12:13:29 AM(UTC)
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Thai you look like your crapping your pants in the 1st pic XD that's hot! as for the rest were I live we would call you a wigger... (wannabe failed gangster) and you would get the shyt beaten out of you lol... btw enjoy your banned your mouth in game today only shows how immature and low self esteem you really do have.. NOW GO WIPE UR ASS it stinks :)
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#27 Posted : Sunday, June 17, 2012 12:25:59 AM(UTC)
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Thai you look like your crapping your pants in the 1st pic XD that's hot! as for the rest were I live we would call you a wigger... (wannabe failed gangster) and you would get the shyt beaten out of you lol... btw enjoy your banned your mouth in game today only shows how immature and low self esteem you really do have.. NOW GO WIPE UR ASS it stinks :)


Your garbage you little snitch child. Send Softnyx a SS of what I messaged I could care less. your garbage and all you do is spam Mks/NS in every room you join. l2p. PS: you know you look at my pics and you think damn.,. I wish I was half as good looking as him.. maybe you wouldnt be such a loser. but low and behold. you are a loser. your garbage. you cant play rakion, you cant even live your life. your sorry. you just need to give it up. maybe take up a sport and get your body up weak kid.

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#28 Posted : Sunday, June 17, 2012 1:48:53 AM(UTC)
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Muay_Thai wrote:
XExcaliburX wrote:
Thai you look like your crapping your pants in the 1st pic XD that's hot! as for the rest were I live we would call you a wigger... (wannabe failed gangster) and you would get the shyt beaten out of you lol... btw enjoy your banned your mouth in game today only shows how immature and low self esteem you really do have.. NOW GO WIPE UR ASS it stinks :)


Your garbage you little snitch child. Send Softnyx a SS of what I messaged I could care less. your garbage and all you do is spam Mks/NS in every room you join. l2p. PS: you know you look at my pics and you think damn.,. I wish I was half as good looking as him.. maybe you wouldnt be such a loser. but low and behold. you are a loser. your garbage. you cant play rakion, you cant even live your life. your sorry. you just need to give it up. maybe take up a sport and get your body up weak kid.



Your a funny one ^^ if i looked like you or like I was shitting my pants id off myself sorry xD

Only thing your good at is running your mouth you fail at the rest keep on since that is all your good at. My life is alot better then yours and will always be so!
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#29 Posted : Sunday, June 17, 2012 3:59:14 AM(UTC)
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I find mk/turtle spammers very easy to kill. It's the never ending lag that comes with them that's annoying.
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#30 Posted : Sunday, June 17, 2012 5:58:50 AM(UTC)
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Zell wrote:
I find mk/turtle spammers very easy to kill. It's the never ending lag that comes with them that's annoying.


Excalibur is easy to kill any given day... If you can get to him through the cell spam. I guess if you can't play the game you might as well exploit its faults.
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#31 Posted : Sunday, June 17, 2012 8:30:58 PM(UTC)
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He's usually the one begging the room master to kick me.
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#32 Posted : Thursday, June 21, 2012 11:33:31 AM(UTC)
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That last Picture is kinda creepy :s No offence xd
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#33 Posted : Thursday, June 21, 2012 1:25:22 PM(UTC)
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That last Picture is kinda creepy :s No offence xd


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